The later part of this year taught me a very important lesson. A lesson that only life can teach one.
I learnt that one has to be diplomatic in relationships....
Till now, I always believed that in relationships as close as a husband and wife's relation, one should just be open and free. I believed that communication was a key to a happy relationship. Alas, I was wrong. I understood that even if I felt a particular thing, its not a very good idea to just blurt it out. That I should keep it in my heart, ponder over it and the best thing to do with it was to keep it to myself....
I think in my head, I live in an ideal world. A world which believes in virtues like honesty, sincerity, hardwork and truth. That world inside me believes in love that lasts forever and a love that is selfless and pure. It may be that of a brother and sister or a husband and wife.
It hurts me to know that I need to diplomatic in relationships. It really does hurt me a lot. I wish things were different. I wish all was more open and pure. I wish.....
Friday, December 31, 2010
Monday, December 20, 2010
Questions my heart asks and my head cant ans....
Why do we have to be diplomatic even when it comes to relations between one's spouse, one's parents, one's cousins.....
Whats the harm in calling a spade a spade?? What if i open my heart to the people who are close to me? Why should i think twice before opening up to the closest people in my life? I get a feeling that one is alone, no matter how loving one's family is, no matter how caring they are... one is always alone, always.
Why is it so difficult to take decisions? Why does one person work so hard at a relationship and the other just doesnt care? Why should one have to stay in a relationship if one is not appreciated, loved??
I hate being taken for granted. i hate being there all the time without any appreciation, love and care. I am tired of expecting all the time, and receiving very little in return.
Why should i have to explain the meaning and depth of a family to someone? Why should i take the pains of going thru this when the other person seems least interested?????
i guess its love that binds all this. i guess, its nothing but sheer, selfless love that has kept me going. Alone i am but am still at it and i just dont seem to have the heart to break free.......
Whats the harm in calling a spade a spade?? What if i open my heart to the people who are close to me? Why should i think twice before opening up to the closest people in my life? I get a feeling that one is alone, no matter how loving one's family is, no matter how caring they are... one is always alone, always.
Why is it so difficult to take decisions? Why does one person work so hard at a relationship and the other just doesnt care? Why should one have to stay in a relationship if one is not appreciated, loved??
I hate being taken for granted. i hate being there all the time without any appreciation, love and care. I am tired of expecting all the time, and receiving very little in return.
Why should i have to explain the meaning and depth of a family to someone? Why should i take the pains of going thru this when the other person seems least interested?????
i guess its love that binds all this. i guess, its nothing but sheer, selfless love that has kept me going. Alone i am but am still at it and i just dont seem to have the heart to break free.......
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